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Halloween and Trauma in Young People: A Complex Relationship

Written by Jade Lake | Oct 31, 2023 9:00:00 AM

Halloween is a seasonal holiday, celebrated with costumes, sweets, and spooky festivities. For many, it's a time of joy and excitement. However, Halloween can also be a source of distress, especially for children and young people who have experienced trauma. The relationship between Halloween and trauma is complex, and it's important to understand how this holiday can trigger various emotional responses in those who have been affected by trauma.

Halloween is rooted in fear and gore. It features costumes of witches and ghosts, decorations of skeletons and cobwebs, and haunted houses. While these are fun to some, they can be deeply unsettling for individuals who have experienced traumatic events. Children and young people who have experienced trauma, such as domestic abuse and violence, or accidents, may find Halloween imagery and activities triggering. The sight of bloodied costumes or jump scares can evoke memories of their own frightening experiences, leading to heightened anxiety and fear.

The 'flight, fight, freeze' response is a primal reaction when feeling scared and anxious. It is an automatic physiological and psychological response to a perceived threat. When scared, the brain signals for a decision: 
'flight' makes you want to run away
'fight' prepares you to confront the perceived threat
'freeze' is an instinctive pause, like a deer in headlights
These responses are meant to enhance survival. Understanding them can help manage fear. Self-awareness can be invaluable in handling moments of fear and stress.

Parents and carers can play a vital role in helping children and young people navigate the complexity between Halloween and trauma. It's important to be grounded and present, a safe adult, who is attuned to their emotional needs, offering support and understanding. Adopting simple coping strategies such as mindfulness or breathing exercises can also be useful in managing anxiety and stress during this season.

The relationship between Halloween and trauma is complex, and it is important to be sensitive to the needs of each individual and to prioritize their emotional mental health and well-being during this holiday. It is crucial to respect their boundaries and understand that what might be a fun thrill for one person can be a deeply distressing experience for another. Consent and open communication are key in ensuring that Halloween activities do not inadvertently retraumatize people. By fostering an environment of safety and empathy, we can aim to ensure that Halloween is a celebration that brings joy rather than distress to children and young people.

 

 

To find out more about how you can support children and young people experiencing ongoing stress/anxiety, check out our Healing Together programme - https://www.healing-together.co.uk/anxiety-programme-children-session-outline

 

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